'ME' EQUATION: Future= Self + Success
Designing and planning for your success in the future is like solving a puzzle. It Requires time, effort, skill, patience and commitment. There would be trials, but whatever step you make, strive to learn from it, for it will secure you a success.
It is the bright light which enters the edge of the closed window beside my bed that awaken me from my deepest sleep. Still, my mind remembers all the sequential and im
portant events dealing with my future life that are compacted in my very long, long dream last night.
I went into a study table and I immediately put a paper and a pen. I wrote everything from what happened in my dream. It goes this way...
These are the qualities of an ideal 'me' in the future: a man near to perfection, the best professor that a student can have, a person who attained his main goal in life, a good traveler of the world, a man with a big heart to other people through having charitable works, and a good son to his parents. If these could be me in the future, I have nothing else to wish for. Everything was complete despite the fact that I am perfectly imperfect at all. I still have my weaknesses.
My life was very nice since I started migrating from Bicol to Quezon City, after being graduated with academic distinction in college. Long years after I embattled the years of hard work for studying and for the pursuance of career, now I stood here at one of the famous and biggest schools in the Philippines, U.P. Diliman. It's a great pleasure that I'd acquire respect from my students. I think what matter is this saying, 'Treating others with dignity and making sure your behaviors are respectful would end up with respecting you in the same way. Thus, it will make you a person of quality'. This is my principle inside the classroom. According to my dream, the major subjects that I'm teaching were Science and Mathematics. I loved to work in Science laboratories and to teach the right way of mixing two chemical compounds as well as performing calculations satisfying the laws of Calculus. In such ways, it boosted my confidence to treat myself as a good professor or educator. I received awards from my invention and had been a great part in the Science and Math World. How nice it is!
I am a person who attained his main goal n life. According to Tony Robbins, setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible. It's very difficult to attain a main goal in life especially if no one guided you to attain such a thing. I am still lucky for I have my family, for their lifetime support and encouragement to attain my main goals in life of being a successful man, It takes time, patience, hard work to attain such goal. During my elementary, high school, and college years I'll never forget the several times that there were many people who sacrificed everything just to suffice my needs in school. That was my parents, my ever beloved mother and father. In my dream, I owned a small yet pretty house and a gray car. I can afford my needs and wants especially my stuff, gadgets, clothing as well as accessories, and etc. I also supported the needs of my family and contributed to the expenses needed to build our own family dream house. It was very wonderful.
Next thing that was in my dream was about traveling the world. I dream to go to other places in the Philippines and also in other countries. Just in a deep sleep, i was able to go to other places across Luzon, Visayas and Mindanao and had arrived to U.S., Canada, Europe, Russia, France, Japan, China, Singapore and so on. It was a great experience to see the gigantic Eiffel Tower in Paris, France. Also, the New York Film Festival with an enormous and astonishing floats moving down the street. I also experienced being under the cherry blossoms from Japan while its flower is falling towards the ground. With amusement, I also saw the Puerto Princesa Underground River in Palawan, Philippines. In my future, I was a traveler...
A man with a big heart to children through having charitable works. I find happiness when helping other people, specifically to those families and children who are disadvantaged. It satisfied me and gave me contentment. We must share everything that we have, we should avoid selfishness in our hearts in order to give yourself peace and happiness and to receive a surprise gift from heaven or from God. It is not difficult to do for me because I have the luxury and money. According to my dream, I founded three charitable foundations just like, "Tulong sa Mahirap ngunit mahusay na Mag-aaral" was for all children who can't afford themselves to send in school, "Cure For a Better Future" was a charitable work open for all mentally-ill children, and "New Horizons Family Care" was for the family who needs financial support.
Then in my dream, it illustrates that I am a good son to my parents. Well, as far as I know, I always thank them for everything that they've done for me. Also, there are times that I can say 'I Love You' to them...I respect them and I continuously and never stop showing my love through hugging them tightly. In that moment, I feel like floating on the sky and sitting on a very fluffy clouds. It gives me satisfaction. It makes my life completely happy.
After I wrote everything in my dreams, I started reading it. I know that this just a result of my deep imagination, it wasn't true at all. But then optimism suddenly dwells my mind forcing that anything could be possible with the aid of self-commitment, self-patience, self-skills. Some things that are stated in my writing were not patterned or not the true 'me' right now, but changes are possible if I plan for an ideal 'me'. I kept the paper.
I approached my mother and gave to her the paper and positively say, "Everything that was stated there would be me on 2025". "Really?", my mother replied with a smile.
I expected that my mother would laugh at me. But it was different. What she only said is, "Continue the great work that you have now, because in the future you will become a successful and a great masterpiece ever created by God for a mission." It motivated me at present...
After all, designing my future self today continues...using all the skills, encouragement and motivation for attaining a common goal ---being successful in the future.